Why life is so hard ?

We always have the same feeling that from the childhood to become adult, life is so hard for us, and we should be brave enough to overcome difficulties. Once you have finished to solve out one problems, the next trouble issue may waiting for you to conquer without any delay. That is life, everybody is face with happiness and sorrow in different stages. That makes life more beautiful and colorful.

The first step : School ages

Even for primary school students, they have their worried matters. They should try to make good performance at school and listen carefully about their lessons. If they do not get high scores for exams , especially for final exam, they may be punished or criticized by their parents. Some parents will arrange the extra training for their kids , such as drawing , dancing, piano and etc. Surely, if the kids are interested in these training courses, it is not a bad thing to cultivate their hobbies.

The second step :Buy house after graduation

A majority of people urge to buy house immediately right after their graduation. It is no doubt that we cannot afford to buy an apartment with our income. In China, most people hold the same view that it is essential to own their house even in debt. Frankly speaking, people in foreign countries may not agree this opinion, maybe it is because their rental house condition is more advantage and satisfactory than in China’s.

The third step : Get married

After your found a decent job and get stable salary to support your life. Maybe your parents can assistant you a little about the new house purchasing. If not so, you have to be more economic independent and afford the house by yourself. Once we are old enough to get married, we have to consider about some issues which is more related to money. Marriage means responsibility ,cheap hats, and it is not only related to two people, it is for two big families. We have to keep learning new things to keep pace with modern society

The fourth step : Kid’s investment

After we got married , we will embrace a new life’s coming, and you have to earn more to raise the baby, to do some savings for kid’s education investment. Especially in the babyhood stage, you have to spend a lot of money on him or her. I think the baby is the most valuable gift the god offered to us. Anyway, they are the sweet burden for parents.